Have you ever lived away from home before? Would you be able to go back if this doesn't work out? how well do you know and get along with your metamour?
I also struggle with the deadline aspect of this, but at the very least, your taking this idea seriously might move you forward in your relationship in order to work toward the goal of living together in the future. Or you might decide not to work toward that goal at all.
Really? In a situation like this? I would go with my gut. Take a chance or not, it could go either way it seems to me.
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