Now that you guys are considering your newly visible relationship more judiciously, I guess, you might also have to look into changes in social circles.
As I know of India and more in South India and Chennai, people (especially the vendors and hawkers) will very quickly get a feel about something different happening.
These people are more observant than they seem to be. More so as they have time for "free mind chattering".
You might have to even consider a change in grocery store and also other habits nurtured due to prevalent social, emotional structures.
My assumptions may be incorrect( and may reflect factors I am considering wrt going poly). As it is said, "my 2 cents". These cents flow as you mentioned
Originally Posted by urmila
This will help us to keep our relationship under wraps for the outside world as we dont want to come out.