Originally Posted by KyleKat
There's no reason to rush into things. Be romantically involved for now and let her decide when it's appropriate for the two of you to become sexual. She can discuss it with him and you can be supportive, but If you push this you could jeopardize things.
Sorry, I was unclear - I'm willing to be very patient. He said he may never
be okay with us being sexual together.
She would be okay with being sexual right now if not for him.
Me: 22-year-old female, cis and queer, have identified as poly for ~2 years, currently in my first committed poly relationship
A: Poly boyfriend since 9/17/13, currently sexually open and not seeing other romantic partners but open to such in the future