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Old 03-10-2012, 12:02 AM
SuddenlyStoneElf SuddenlyStoneElf is offline
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Thank you for your encouragement!

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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
If he's agreed to "work with you through this," then what's his problem with reading up on poly and learning what others have done to succeed and get over the bumps in the road?
Because he's worried about not implementing what he reads correctly, and he's worried that everyone else's opinions and experiences will end up overruling his own. He'd rather figure it out for himself, which means... no shortcuts, no help, no outside inspiration.

I understand his point of view although it makes living with him quite a unique experience.
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