Originally Posted by windmarkbob
Sheesh, where to start. He took his pleasure with my lovely wife, then said he felt like he cheated on his wife, and stopped everything from going any further...to make light of the situation, I was the only one who didn't get laid.
On a more serious note...he has basically said no more contact between me and his wife and it's unacceptable that she feel romantic love toward anyone but him...so much for our Friday night bullshit sessions throwing darts...that is ending.
I'm out, and it's hurting both of us.
Oh, bloody hell! If I could afford a trip to WI right now, I'd come visit and kick the dude's ass for you. That sort of behavior warrants a thorough ass-kicking.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.