03-08-2012, 12:30 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
Everyday Ordinary Happy Poly Moments
It seems that I have seen it commented on here before that we see a lot of the "work" of poly when reading the forums. We see the angst and the struggles associated with breaking out of old molds and the thrill and whirlwind of new relationships. The the NRE fades...the relationships work or they don't ...and people wander away and live their lives away from the forum.
Thank you to the "old pros" that keep up their blogs and remind us that poly isn't all about dating and beginnings but can enrich the day-to-day living of our lives.
Did something happen today that just made you smile inside? Not a big elaborate event, not a super-special present, not a momentous discovery...just an ordinary happy poly moment?
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (21+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
TT: poly bi male, married to Lotus, FB with JaneQ
VV and MsJ: bi-women with male primaries, LTR LDR FWBs to JaneQ
My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe