Originally Posted by dingedheart
How long was the dating process? How many years have you been together?
Has she read any of stories here on this site.
I see several red flags in this for you.
1) Her integrity... cheating with in the first year. Your health and safety are at risk by her decisions and habits. So trust is a really big deal.
2) Communications issue. Shutting down at this early stage.
3) secret separate lives ....they spill over on each other
We dated for 2 years before getting married
Balance-29 year old married seeking female partner
Nikki -29 bisexual woman married to me
3 kids all girls 11,8,8 years of age