The common rule is that you go at the pace of the slowest person. It's a good rule for swinging, poly, mono, golf, new board games, you see where I'm going with this?
If there is one specific person you like and would want to be with then talk to her about that one person. Be prepared to be told no. Getting frustrated will only slow things down. There's no rush here. Just take it a day at a time.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith
Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old