new poly from Wisconsin, thinking im gonna be ok
I'm a 29 year old straight male with a wife. We have decided to have an open marriage. I'm ok with the idea of finding satisfaction both sexually and emotionally from multiple sources but I think my wife has a different view. She suggested the idea after there was an issue with her cheating. I told her it wasn't the act of her sleeping with someone else that bothered me it was the fact of her hiding it from me. I told her the honesty has to be open and complete but she feels that there shouldn't be any questions asked as long as we are being safe. She feels all she has to do is saying she's going out and I'm supposed to accept it. So here I am to find information and meet like minded people so I find out if I'm crazy or not for wanting her to just let me know if there is someone else.