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Old 03-04-2012, 03:23 PM
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Have you confronted the latest so-called friend about this? It doesn't sound like you and your wife communicate very well.

There is a serious lack of maturity in this situation. Don't hang onto someone who mistreats you out of fear of being alone. You won't be alone forever, and it could be just what you need to learn how to stand up for yourself. Surely, you know someone who has a couch you can crash on.
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