Originally Posted by Ceoli
If you happen to meet a wonderful amazing person with whom you connect deeply with, why settle for not having them in your life at all when you can have them in your life in some capacity, even if it's limited? How does having that connection prevent you from being able to achieve "great"?
Its just not my definiton of "great" I guess. Not that they wouldn't be in my life though. I just know myself and know that my relationship with them would dwindle quickly and never reach the level it possibly could. I wouldn't want to set someone up like that. I've hurt people before with this as they thought it was something it wasn't and been recentful towards them for demanding my time when its over. It just really wouldn't be fair to anyone. I have to be clear with my boundaries when it comes up. On line romances just aren't for me.