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Old 03-03-2012, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Anneintherain View Post
Nycindie, I imagine she means most people (monogamous people obviously, but even some of us who are poly can suffer when hearing that out loud) would find the "I need multiple relationships (aka - I need more that you) to make them feel like they were inadequate. That whole...if I was enough you wouldn't NEED anybody else, so I must be failing.

That's how I read it at least.
Oh, that aspect totally wasn't sinking into my brain, I guess because the OP isn't monogamous. Heh.
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