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Old 03-03-2012, 08:39 AM
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So you're saying treat it like a more mainstream relationship? I think that sounds like a good idea.
Sure. Poly dating and mono dating aren't all that different except for the fact that the people you're dating have other people they're dating or are committed to. What other ways would there be to get to know someone, do fun things together, and develop a loving, caring relationship with them? Dinners out, lunches, walks, movies, events, parties, meeting friends, hand-holding, smooching, getting jiggy wid it, breakfast in bed, backrubs, hanging out doing nothing... I don't really know of any other methods for dating.
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