@genebean: Before we got married we had a serious talk. I asked him if I decided poly wasn't right for me if he still would want to be with me. I would never want him to feel like he was missing out or that I was depriving him of something. If he would have rather been with somebody who was poly, even though it would have hurt like hell, I would have stepped aside because I loved him so much and wanted him to be happy. He insisted, although he is poly, he would be happy in a mono relationship. So, I basically gave him an out, and yet he still wanted to be with me.
@Precious1: Yeah, I do have a rockin bod.