Originally Posted by Jericka
For what it is worth, I have a Secondary's perspective on the situation....
Is the girlfriend paying any attention to how this guy is treating his wife? Because, really, if I saw a guy that I was dating neglecting his wife and newborn? I'd be gone so fast!
NRE or not, I'm perfectly capable of seeing that how he's treating his wife is how I would be treated once the NRE wears off. I wouldn't touch a guy who was neglecting his responsibilities at home with a ten foot pole. EWWWWW!
I absolutely agree with this statement!!!! I entered a triadic situation with a couple that ultimately didn't work out. My guy put his wife and children first when we finally realized she ultimately would not be able to cope. While the situation made me very sad, he would not have been the person I love if he'd made any other choice.