Agreed mags. In my opnion her guilt is well deserved. She has no integrity and is not poly. I think its fair to say that anyone here will tell you that poly is built on consentual agreements between partners. Its built on open and honest communication, consideration/empathy/compassion and respect. Cheating is completely the opposite to poly as a result.
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