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Old 03-01-2012, 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted by arianne View Post
I think it's knowing that I potentially don't have the option for a long time that hurts.
I totally understand that. I just think that your mates would prefer knowing how you feel BEFORE it was too late and you'd already made a decision that might hurt them. You might be pleasantly surprised at just how much they care about your happiness.

Originally Posted by arianne View Post
Definitely sending positive vibes to you for sorting that out!
Thank-you It doesn't need so much 'sorting' really, the situation is what it is. It serves little purpose to wallow in the 'what ifs' (which is kinda what I've been doing). I just have to keep reminding myself that as secondary relationships go, this one is fantastic. He is a thoughtful caring man and at this point, I don't really see my life without him in it. I'd rather have a third of him than none.
I tried being reasonable. I didn't like it. ~Clint Eastwood~
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