aww, thankyou, yeah I decided sometime ago I wanted an open relationship for numerous reasons. It took the lady love a little longer to consider, contemplate, and comply. For me being poly is more about freedom than anything. We read "The Ethical Slut" together (if you don't know it, it is sort of the standard in poly books) and although it was good, it put forth the baisic idea of being poly, but not so much the practices, problems, and positive things about being poly.
How do I put a sticky thread on the forums?