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Old 02-27-2012, 08:24 AM
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I kind of see the flip side: if you don't feel comfortable expressing your love to her, what makes you think you can all live together, be involved emotionally and sexually, and have it all work out? Since the sexual and romantic aspect of your relationship is a recent development, as you say, why are you thinking of moving in together so soon? Especially since you're having problems saying what you feel? How long has it been?
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