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Old 02-27-2012, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted by schismist View Post
BTW I wasn't making any assumptions. I just went back today to check their answers when I made that post. I didn't make any decisions based on them.
Oh, don't misunderstand - I wasn't saying you were making assumptions. But that's why I purposely don't answer most of those Q's. It seemed like you were saying, "why tell me to slow down if it's all right with them?" That's different than assuming beforehand that someone will sleep with you based on their answers.
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