thankyou everyone, we've talked about this and I think we're back on the right track. I think more than anything it was just a misunderstanding. She is feeling more secure, and I am feeling better about this situation. I went out last night with a friend (i didn't do anything sexual, but that's beside the point), and she was much calmer and relaxed about it. I'm proud of her, and I know we're back on track to being openly loving.