Welcome to the forum.
The best advice I have is remember, in all the chaos, to be very, very nice to yourself. Eat well, get sleep, take time to not talk about IT occasionally (go to a movie with a friend, go to dinner with a friend and talk about anything else).
Also, recognize the difference in feelings and behaviour. You don't have to ask anyone to change their feelings, but if they are not behaving in ways that you feel respected, then you have to decide what to do about that. (hullo pot? kettle calling ~ this would be one of my biggest challenges)
Sounds like you're on the right track.