Hey annabel, jes' wanted to say thanks for yer kind words. I learned SO fuckin' much about myself from this whole journey, and i'm pretty proud of a lot of the lessons that i've taken away with me. Wish they hadn't been at the expense of anyone's happiness, but i guess that's the thing with life.... you just show up with an open heart, and a willingness to love and learn, and see what unfolds from there. Sometimes the only way you know what you want is to experience what you don't want.
Mags - i got that post up in the main forum, it's goin' a little crazy over there
as someone who has been doin' poly successfully for a long while, i gots a lot of respect for your experience and wisdom, so lay it on me whenevs, lady!