I am happy that I don't have overly protective instincts or anything like that, and I have pretty clear view of the relationships as separate. I think that helps me to be supportive without overstepping my boundaries. It is obviously sad, though, to see Mya hurting.
And it is hard to be so far away in this kind of situation, when I really want to hug her and hold her. I love the support she has received here, though.
Originally Posted by karatekid7412589
Thanks for making me think about this because I also had doubts. Way to go against the grain in an already "against the grain" lifestyle!!
Glad to help!
Good luck with exploring poly.
I spent the last week with my closest friend, first I travelled to visit her by bus and then she came here with me. We talked tons, and it was lovely. At the moment, I am in a really good and peaceful place with myself and my loves.