Originally Posted by Red0824
We still love each other and hate the situation, but it is what it is.
Don't you think if he loved you, he'd realize you need him to be there now more than ever.
You should definitely seek counseling soon because you are going to have to reconcile just how much energy you're going to have to put into dealing with him for the rest of your life. Having a kid with someone who has one foot out of the door of your relationship will do that.