Is there anyone here in that forum or "out there" who lives with a spouse in a non-romantic relationship and no sex - AND has decided with spouse on polyamory? As far as I know polyamory does not mean that you need to have sex or romance with everyone in the relationship envolved.
So for example husband has a gf or bf and wife has a gf or bf and all live happy ever after? Or similar situation?
If so how does it go for you? Can you share with your spouse what you expierence with your lovers? Would you even want to share (if they are not also your sexpartner)?
Anything positive would be welcome here. Thanks.