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Old 11-22-2009, 05:48 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by Legion View Post
Maybe I shoud start to take the initiative and say "I don't think we're compatible."
FTW!

Based on what you've reported, I would have been out of the relationship with Nyx in short order. The freak out over going to coffee would have been the end of it, certainly; that would clearly illustrate incompatibility and that the whole thing isn't going to work. You're each better off finding folks who are compatible.
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While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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