Found this to be a good site. I've been reading up on STD/STI's. I liked this sites "Risk Chart".
I can not find it again but when I was doing some intensive reading on one site it said that:
herpes will come out and surface, not necessairly producing a sore but can be contagious, once a month.
I've never heard this before and have been searching sites to find it again.
Glad for this discussion.