Originally Posted by arrowhead
My wife and I have gone to marriage counseling MANY times. We went to counseling on and off over a period of years before our separation, and with several counselors. I had to drag her kicking and screaming each time.
BIG RED FLAG!!! There are bigger issues between you and your wife than if she will ever be able to accept you being poly. I find this behavior odd, when my husband and I were finally driven to counceling, I won't say we actually enjoyed it
, but we found that we both got a great deal out of it and regret that we can't afford to continue to go. What were her biggest objections to going to counseling?