Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Will there be challenges? You had better believe it! My own nature of monogamy interacting in a polyamorous relationship generates a lingering fear of being replaced, becoming less than I am now, unexciting and will lead to her searching for anotherůme.
I realize this was posted a long while ago, but I only just read it. It sums up most of my struggles in relating to my very poly boyfriend and in learning to let go of the old mono ways I've lived with for most of my life. Even though I have both a husband and a boyfriend, I definitely don't feel a pull to look for more relationships. Two mates is more than plenty for me...guess I'm still a bit mono at heart. Thanks for sharing your story so candidly.