Thanks nycindie. I know sometimes people can tell me something again and again, and I don't take them seriously or understand until I've gone through it. I definitely am planning on taking it slow now. I love R to pieces and I don't intend to be leaving this relationship anytime soon.
Jericka, I really appreciate your comments. That's kind of what I have been thinking too, but I have been trying to see it from all angles instead of just focusing on my hurt.