Originally Posted by thirtysilver
My wife says she feels relieved. She still plans to read up on poly. She says it wasn't just that I was having thoughts about someone else, but that she doesn't think R would've been right for her.
This should ease things up at home! Glad she is at least considering poly now that she doesn't feel threatened and out of control. I'm sure that you will find that she will be far more settled and ready to engage in conversations more now. That's a good thing and to both your and her advantage.