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Old 02-19-2012, 10:57 PM
Jade Jade is offline
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I can't be my husband's everything. Even when we're mono, I can't be his everything. It is exhausting. Letting others into your life doesn't have to detract from your relationship. It will impact, but it doesn't need to detract. There is a balancing act. If you try to be poly and you or your partners don't respect the potential impact, then yeah, negative situation. If that happens, you can work through it or break it off. [note to self: but don't just sit there]
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