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Old 11-21-2009, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
This is awesome Ceoli!..I'm starting to understand the fluidity of your relationships. I take this as meaning you could be in a monogamous relationship but could never actually be mongamous in a traditional sense because if a new experience comes along you want to embrace it. Your relationship would naturaly transform into a poly one.
Yeah, that's pretty close! Though I want to stress that I don't think of it as looking over my partner's shoulder for the new thing to come along, but rather being open to whatever gifts may come my way. And it would be important to me to nourish the relationship I have, not drag it into something poly. I would want to be with partners who are open to that natural transformation should it happen. Does that make sense?
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