Originally Posted by Emm
I would rather my partner be influenced by others as well as by me. Being everything to someone can be exhausting, and I'm less likely to bore him to death if he has others to give him what he needs when I'm not around or not feeling "on".
In fact, lately I'm trying to get a boyfriend to go out and date others more
simply because I know we are VERY different and cannot be everything for each other. I know there are others out there that can fill various needs and such for him that I simply cannot.