I am in the relationships I have because I want to experience the people I am with. I am certain that if I so desired I could find other people to have relationships with and be happy, but it's not so much the having as the development and achieving depth, trust, longevity and commitment. That makes for happiness and fulfillment beyond compare.
I have chosen the ones I love very carefully and strive to create these things with everything I have. I trust them entirely even though I have been hurt before and could be hurt again. It's very important to give it my all regardless of the title of monogamous or polyamorous. I don't subscribe to anything but what I feel and know about myself and those I am with. I subscribe to what I have created for myself and create with the ones I love. there are no definitions for that.
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