The only problem with dating someone locally is there aren't any girls around here that I actually like who are into poly. And my wife doesn't feel guilt because she is only in it for sex. She has no emotional attachment to the guys she sees. I can't do that though and she knows that hence why I am pursuing emotional relationships while hers are strictly physical.
ME: 23 year old slightly bi-curious male. B: 19 year old bi female and my wife