Thanks Derby. Yes I've been monogamous all my life. I do feel poly with them which suprised the hell out of me that i was/am that open. It just has to be that I'm equal. Being a secondary sucks I think unless I could also have others to fufull the unmet needs due to so much time missed with him.
But thats not on the table. And even if it was, I'm unsure how that will feel.
Originally Posted by Derbylicious
She's said earlier in the thread that she feels that she's monogamous and wants to be "the one" to someone. If I were her I wouldn't be looking to get involved with a partnered man again right away.