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Old 02-17-2012, 01:42 AM
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There may be a poly social group in your area, do some googling, maybe you can find new friends to talk to. I found www.morethantwo.com to be very helpful. Good stuff here as well: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=26

Tell her you want to give it a couple of weeks to think it over, at the least. There's no reason to rush into this. Living with multiple partners is very intense, you won't be able to get away from the situation if you're feeling overwhelmed, so that's something to consider. On the other hand, people make it work.

If you do decide to go for it, take it slow and make sure everyone is doing lots of talking and as little assuming as possible.

Good luck!!
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