Wanted to say...
Things will come whether or not you are prepared. It all depends on whether or not you are willing to accept the outcomes that will be arriving. People are going to do what they want regardless of what you do, except killing them. Yes, this includes me, but the importance of realizing that fact will help. You already know that if I wind up falling for someone that is not within our middle ground, it would be painful but I would be willing to do it for you to feel comfortable with being in a relationship with me<3
Hope this helps ^ - -^