Sexually, I am a female. A lesbian trapped in a biologically male body. In my purest form I am without gender, a sentient mind running off the hardware of fleshy neurons. I'm a feminist, and default to avoiding contact with men--just not interested. For me, the boundry intercourse and no intercourse is hard to define... where does it begin? Am I having it right now?
I'd describe myself that way, but then I'd feel like a pretentious 15-year-old who just needs to get laid.
That's why I describe myself as a straight dude who likes women, for sex and/or other pleasant interactions.