Oh sorry, didn't answer your question. Double standards and OPP fucking suck, unless that's what the people involved all actually want. But if it's what they want, why would they need a standard/rule/policy?
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.