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Old 02-13-2012, 08:25 PM
openornot openornot is offline
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Default Am I in a Poly Relationship?

I am happily married. My husband and I have been together for 12 years. I just confirmed that my husband is still seeing a woman who he has been seeing off and on for 14 years. He denies their relationship. I am not concerned about him continuing to see her. She clearly gives him something he needs, and he clearly wants to be with me also. So, for all of you experiences poly couples...

Should I confront him and tell him that he needs to be honest about the status of our relationship OR

Should I keep my mouth shut and just know that we are in a poly relationship.

I don't mind the poly part but the lying part is really grating on my nerves. There is no reason he shouldn't trust me. This is not the first time we have participated in alternative lifestyles.

Any advice?
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