Originally Posted by xxgoodtimescouple
It was weird at bedtime tonight. He let me know that tomorrow night, his GF was sleeping here at our house...
Generally, having a gf stay over at a home you share with a partner is usually something you slowly negotiate for -- not just that he announces it will happen and you have to deal with it.
It seems like he is just doing whatever he wants without making any compromises or letting you ease into things and feel more comfortable at a pace you can handle. I think you would do well to establish boundaries for yourself and ask him to give you more consideration in that way.