Originally Posted by Anneintherain
I think that after dating somebody for 6 months I'd have a pretty good idea if I wanted to live with them or not. I'm not sure somebody could convince me I wanted it with a list of practical reasons if I didn't already want it.
I agree with this. If they are dating, your wife should KNOW whether or not she is interested in living with your gf. Has she told you her reasons for hesitating? I find it VERY hard to live with women in general, even if I care about them a lot. Maybe your wife is just not wanting to share HER house with another woman full-time, that's a huge adjustment when you're used to being on your own fairly often.