I'm so glad I found this thread! It's been lovely reading it.
I've had some wonderful moments recently:
My husband and partner hugging each other, and saying how much they enjoyed each others' company.
Husband telling partner: "You're good to and for (Fiona), and I appreciate that."
My partner saying, "I love you. I've been wanting to say that for a long time."
The new person my husband is seeing saying "I like you and I want us to be friends" as she hugged me.
The help and support that my partner, my husband's new lady and the man I've been reconnecting with have given us.
I had been sitting at home alone tonight, trying to work through some things and feeling a bit sorry for myself, and this thread has been a wonderful inspiration. Thanks to all who have posted here!