Originally Posted by JaneQSmythe
With regards to the OP - very soon the whole poly issue may be a moot point for some time, my wish for you is that your husband mans up when the baby comes (for many men it seems that the transition to "father" doesn't actually happen until they meet their offspring - then their whole world shifts...suddenly dealing with a poopy diaper is the least of their worries).
This is very true.
The rest of your post has me wide eyed with horror and LMAO. I'm sure most first time parents have delusions of bliss until reality smacks them in the face (HARD)
. Now, we will never admit to having any such delusions