nycindie, I mostly agree with you about Red needing to not blame herself, but
Originally Posted by nycindie
If you both really didn't want to get pregnant, you BOTH would have made sure it didn't happen.
Are you fucking kidding me?? First of all, it's not true. No birth control, even using multiple kinds at once, is 100%. Second of all, you DON'T say that to someone 41 weeks pregnant. You just don't. That's taking your NY bluntness and tactlessness too far.