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Old 02-08-2012, 07:37 PM
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When we hooked up I assumed she knew what she was doing so I didn't bother to ask "Are you seeing anyone?" because I would've expected a response like "Would I be hooking up with you if I were?"

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seems unorthodox for something casual
Once you reject the orthodox assumption of monogamy, you should be prepared to reject the rest of the cultural relationship/dating orthodoxy. You should not be surprised to learn not everyone shares your assumptions/expectations about how non-monogamous relationships ought to work. This is highly ranked among the reasons you hear polyfolk chant "communicate, communicate, communicate!"
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