Both my men are college students, so work isn't an issue. We're looking at moving to Terre Haute, because my husband has applied to Rose-Hulman's Electrical Engineering program. I was sort of thinking the same thing- our families can't be hurt by our lifestyle, because no one there knows them, and my husband can't be kicked out of college for it, and neither can my boyfriend. Thanks!
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